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I did a search to look at my profile and photo and I do not see it. Why?
Hi! If possible, can you critique my profile. Several people have looked at it, 4 people has asked for my picture before it was posted. I got it posted, emaled them and then have heard absolutely nothing. Maybe they don't like the way I look, maybe there is something that I am saying that nonone is writing back. Can you please help me figure this out? Maybe I should get better pictures. Maybe I should email them again. I do think that if I emaill them twice and they don't respond, I need to move on! Usually I email and ask them to look at my profile rather than winking. Thanks for your help!
Would you please check my profile out and let me know if I need to change anything? I am not getting any response on here.
I have been dating a guy from the site for a couple of months now and it seems to be going nowhere. We spend a great amount of time together and I always have a good time, but I think he sees me more of a friend than a girlfriend. I really like him and would like to be more than just friends with him. How do I handle this?
I am new to the site and I must be offending women when I ask for their phone number. I am not good at all the emailing back and forth. I would much rather make phone contact as soon as possible. Why are women so put off by me asking for their phone numbers?
Is less more? I ask because I try to address my similarities with the women I send messages based on their profile and personal characteristics. As such, my messages are sometime quite long. Should I send short messages?????
I am currently in a LDR and it is starting to take it’s toll on my finances as well as my physical well being. She lives 900 miles from me and I have always been the one to go visit her on the weekends and it is becoming rather old stuff. She doesn’t like to fly, so for her to come visit me is out of the question. She is a wonderful person, but I am beginning to question if this will ever work out. Not sure what to do now. If you have any suggestions for me I would sure like to hear from you.
I sure hope you can offer me some advice. I have met this man on here and he is coming to visit me next weekend. He is from MN, so he will be flying in on Friday and is planning on staying till Sunday. He has made no mention of getting a hotel room which is making me very nervous. I do not want him staying at my home for obvious reasons. How can I find out what his intentions are?
Well here is the continuing saga about David. He finally thought and wrote about our predicament. here is what he said: Hi MissAnn, I've thought on things...I've even prayed on things, Ann. I think that as much as anything, my reality right now is such that I don't think I "have it in me" to possibly start up a long distance relationship. I'm not trying to be presumptuous in saying that I know that's what would happen, but my heart and head both tell me that's what would likely happen...and logic tells me that'd be the primary hope in meeting. I mean, I don't think we'd meet, hit it off really well and then say "okay, that was nice - take care now." Is it not a fear of something great or of happiness - God no! It is a fear of not being able to give you what you undeniably deserve, as you deserve the best I could give - even more than that, actually. I don't think you can realize - and that's not an indictment or accusation of any sort - how this situation with work just sucks the life out of me. I know I told you I felt I was struggling to keep my head above water...I mean it's as though I'm bleeding out and other than simply quit, I don't know what to do. This drain, this effort to keep putting one hoof in front of the other each day...it just leaves little energy for much of anything. (And I hate that.) We both know any relationship requires/deserves energy and I've always believed in that adage of "four seasons" in terms of knowing someone. And therein lies the rub... I don't know how you'll react to this but as I've always said "I've never lied to ya and I'm not gonna start now" and so it's in that spirit I write... If you wish, maybe we can visit over the weekend sometime... Thoughts?
I have been talking with jabman2 and he is not a scammer, but you have him on the scammer blog. He is a very nice man and is coming to visit me. What you say about him on the scammer blog is not true. He sent me a copy of his drivers license to prove it was him.
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