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Taylor wrote: I am a fun, relaxed, yet very busy professional. I get many peeks at my profile but almost no responses. I wonder if it is partly because I do not know how to describe myself in a way that expresses my personality. I also wonder if my long hours make it impossible to believe that I am so easy going and relaxed. Any ideas how to get out of this rut?
Cathy wrote: Why don't men show their photo? Why do they ask us to "ask for it". Just got another wink from that kind and he asked me to "verify my account to show sincerity". What does that mean? He really hasn't filled out much either. Not going to contact him but need some answers. thanks
Jena wrote: I am a 57 yr old woman and this is my first time trying an online dating site. I’m not sure how it is to work. I have men contacting and asking I send emails to their personal email address, I don’t understand why they can’t email me on the site. Do you have some tips for a newbie, like me?
Mary wrote: How do I find my successful matches?
My high school sweetheart was killed in a car crash...I thought at the time he was my soulmate... How is one sure ? I would like to align with my true soulmate? Any advice?
Bill wrote: Why do so many women make an initial contact then fail to follow-up after? Have any advice regarding my profile??
What else do I need to do? You told me to put me and koala as 1st photo, so I did. Some I respond to haven't been on for a month or more. Do those guys ever come back on or does that mean they've found someone? I'm 70 going on 50, lots of energy and interests. Do I need a sexier photo? I'm discouraged. Help! Thank you.
Is it appropriate for me to call a guy who sends me his phone number on the first contact?
I received an email from a member asking me to send him a photo ID. Why would someone ask that?
First of all let me thank you for the wonderful job you do in posting the scammers. I reference that blog daily and it has saved me several times. Now for my question. I have met a man on the site who lives in Wilmington, NC. We have communicated by emails, online chat and phone. Everything seems to be great and he suggested yesterday that we meet for lunch in Charleston, SC, which would be about half way for each of us to drive. Is this a smart thing for me to do? Thanks
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