Perhaps most men are envisioning a woman who can feel the earth beneath her knees, while tilling the earth with her hands...but at the end of the day, she is quite comfortable stepping onto the podium not so others can see her, it's so she can see the world. Should we be looking to woman to change how they are perceived by men... without considering it be that men see woman as they see they see their mothers, as giants.
The right woman will have you seeing the world differently... as a creator she shapes the world of others with love. With exceptions to the rule, it's a love most revered and unmatched by men.
Just being who you really are, not trying to act like you are something you are not. Can be comfortable and mix well with others. Not giving the impression, or trying to give the impression, you are better than anyone.
Who knows: Girl next door. Gorgeous girl who does not know she is gorgeous. A lady who does not take herself too seriously. Someone one can be comfortable around. Someone who does not hold herself above all others. Someone who might put up with me. Like I said, who knows.